Guest Stars June Squibb as Mary Ann Patterson Grace Fulton as Young Melinda Wentworth Miller as Sgt. Paul Adams Balthazar Getty as Michael Adams Jon Polito as Joe Grimaldi Eddie Jones as Funeral Ghost Rodney Scott as Dan Clancy Deborah Strang as Mrs. Grimaldi Co Starring John Eric Bentley as Army Chaplain William Marquez as Older Man Allison McDonell as Vera Adams Diane Dorsey as Coffee Drinker Uncredited Jeffrey Hutchinson as Father at Funeral Brady Rubin as Widow Jody Hart as Honor Guard